Truth be told, "Butterflies" is a piece of of shit, but that's not to discount that the way he made me feel for a time was insightful to my ability, in my 30's, to still get excited about another person. I truly did not know if I stillhad that desire / interest in me! But lo and behold, I am still an all feeling, sensual ← WHO KNEW? entity. I've come to recognize that with all the lackluster dating I have done since becoming non-monogamous that I was not experiencing a lack of interest because my libido was down. I was experiencing a lack of interest because the level of quality of men in the dating pool has SIGNIFICANTLY declined. WE ARE TALKING ..WITH DUMB, DUMB, INDISTINCT PROFILES LIKE THIS.. He may be nice, but this boring, thoughtless, vanilla AHOLE wasted my sweet time. DON'T MESSAGE ME-IF YA BASIC!